Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Tell Someone Your Being Bullied

Always tell someone you trust and who can help you ,don't suffer in silence.
If you are afraid to tell someone in person, then write a note or email to tell them what is going on. It can be anyone from your parents, grandparents, brothers or sisters or another adult you trust.

I remember when I being bullied at school I told my Uncle Al and he gave me several options.
One I liked the best was to make friends with a tall kid. My friend Ken was very tall so I made it a point to stay close to him on the play ground and walking home. The interesting thing is I protected him from kids bullying him and he protected me from my bully.

If you are being bullied at work tell someone and figure out a solution.


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Tuesday, June 5, 2007

My Son's A Bully!

Recently I presented my Stop The Bullying training program for a PTA event.
When I was explaining what we should do if we find out our child is a bully one of the attendees raised her hand and shared with us that her son was a bully. She also explained what she does to help him realize how his victim feels when he bully's him

She role plays with her son having him play the victim and she plays the role of the bully.
Then they stops and she asks him how it feels when someone make fun of him or pushes him all the time. She also explains what a bully is so he can see the difference between having fun and hurting someones feelings.

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